Hopeful Resolution

So, here we are:

2011

To be honest, I am relieved 2010 is in the rear view mirror. It was a tough, emotional year for me. The second year of experiencing the world without the physical presence of my "North Star" to guide me. Without that Guidance, my mental makeup, outlook and optimism took a beating...

As Paula Cole says: "It is ME who is my enemy, ME who beats me up, ME who makes the Monsters, ME who strips my confidence..."

The Rev James Martin came up with 10 spiritual learnings that he wished he adopted years ago.

1. First up, Stop worrying so much! it's useless (I.e. Jesus was right.)
2. Being a saint means being yourself. Stop trying to be someone else and just be your best self. Saves you heartache.
3. There's no right way to pray, any more than there's a right way to be a friend. What's "best" is what works best for you.
4. Your deepest, most heartfelt desires are God's desires for you. And vice versa. Listen. And follow them.
5. Within you is the idea of your best self. Act as if you were that person and you will become that person, with God's grace.
6. Don't worry to much about the worst that can happen. Even if it happens, God is with you, and you can handle it. Really.
7. You can't force people to approve of you, agree with you, be impressed with you, love you or even like you. Stop trying.
8. When we compare, we are usually imagining someone else's life falsely. So our real-life loses out. I.e. Compare and despair
9. Seven things to say frequently:  I love you.  Thank you.  Thank you, God.  Forgive me.  I'm so happy for you!  Why not?  Yes.
10. Peace and joy come after asking God to free you -- from anything that keeps you from being loving and compassionate.

So here's to 2011 and to Re-Discovering Hope, Love and Optimism.



Deacon investigating the early morning Fog at the lake

 I am certain my spiritual North Star is pulling for me.....